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I don't presume to tell Black people how they should handle that word. It was used to incite violence and hatred and fear and murder for hundreds of years. If they want to reclaim it, that is their personal choice. Not ours.
Why? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
Indy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
Let's take this into the politics folder because we aren't going to resolve it here. Because you seem to think it is OK to tell Black people what they are allowed to say.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
I actually find it offensive when they use it. When anybody uses it, but that doesn’t matter since I’m white. Is that what you’re saying?Indy wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:34 amLet's take this into the politics folder because we aren't going to resolve it here. Because you seem to think it is OK to tell Black people what they are allowed to say.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
Okay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
Not even close AIG. Read my last post.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:37 amOkay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
I actually find it offensive when they use it. When anybody uses it, but that doesn’t matter since I’m white. Is that what you’re saying?SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:39 amNot even close AIG. Read my last post.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:37 amOkay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 amWhy? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
Interesting read.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:44 amI actually find it offensive when they use it. When anybody uses it, but that doesn’t matter since I’m white. Is that what you’re saying?SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:39 amNot even close AIG. Read my last post.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:37 amOkay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:32 amIndy made my point. He thinks it’s okay if they use it, but not us. And I strongly disagree. It needs to just go away.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:28 am
Why? You know his response, along with any rational human. It is a word that shouldn't be used by anyone, just like many words that we've started to eliminate as they are vulgar, hateful and unnecessary. The way I'm reading your point is this: "If the word is so bad or wrong, it shouldn't be okay for black people to use it either. It shouldn't just be non-black people that stop using it". I'm not sure what point you're trying to make in the grand scheme of things. Just because black people, in some circles but definitely not the majority, use the "n-word", doesn't mean we're giving them a free pass and harping on Robert Sarver. Robert Sarver is being obtuse and moronic in thinking that "if Draymond Green and other black people use it, why can't I?". And that's just a bullshit set of reasoning.
That was your last post. You find it offensive when anyone uses it, which includes Robert Sarver. Your opinion matters as a person, not as a white male. The human response of it not being okay is the correct one. I do think though that in the context of its use in certain situations for black people, as a non-black person, we have no right to tell a black person that it should be completely banished from their vocabulary because it's being banished from non-black people's vocabulary.
Here's a great read that does a much better job of having a conversation around this than I ever could:
https://www.learningforjustice.org/maga ... -the-nword
I know. I feel like I put words in your mouth. Definitely not cool of me. I got sideways when responding and totally understand where you're coming from. Apologies SunsRIt!SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:52 amInteresting read.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:44 amI actually find it offensive when they use it. When anybody uses it, but that doesn’t matter since I’m white. Is that what you’re saying?SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:39 amNot even close AIG. Read my last post.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:37 amOkay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.
That was your last post. You find it offensive when anyone uses it, which includes Robert Sarver. Your opinion matters as a person, not as a white male. The human response of it not being okay is the correct one. I do think though that in the context of its use in certain situations for black people, as a non-black person, we have no right to tell a black person that it should be completely banished from their vocabulary because it's being banished from non-black people's vocabulary.
Here's a great read that does a much better job of having a conversation around this than I ever could:
https://www.learningforjustice.org/maga ... -the-nword
Just to be clear, I never said it was okay that Sarver used it.
Thanks AIG. It’s all good.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:59 amI know. I feel like I put words in your mouth. Definitely not cool of me. I got sideways when responding and totally understand where you're coming from. Apologies SunsRIt!SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:52 amInteresting read.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:44 amI actually find it offensive when they use it. When anybody uses it, but that doesn’t matter since I’m white. Is that what you’re saying?SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:39 amNot even close AIG. Read my last post.AmareIsGod wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 10:37 am
Okay. But it won't just go away. In the meantime, let's be adults and understand that it isn't appropriate to use it and not use it. The use of the word has diminished dramatically, even in black circles. I think logical people can make the conclusion that it's not an okay word to use. This entire argument is missing the point though. We're talking about Robert Sarver using the term on a multiple time basis around people that have heard him use it. I'm not sure where your point is going other than giving a semblance of excuse towards his use of it.
That was your last post. You find it offensive when anyone uses it, which includes Robert Sarver. Your opinion matters as a person, not as a white male. The human response of it not being okay is the correct one. I do think though that in the context of its use in certain situations for black people, as a non-black person, we have no right to tell a black person that it should be completely banished from their vocabulary because it's being banished from non-black people's vocabulary.
Here's a great read that does a much better job of having a conversation around this than I ever could:
https://www.learningforjustice.org/maga ... -the-nword
Just to be clear, I never said it was okay that Sarver used it.
Who said that? I said I don’t think ANYBODY should say it.Mori Chu wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 11:54 amI just don't get why some white folks want to fight for their right to say the N-word. "Black people sometimes say it! Why can't I say it?" Why are you so eager to say it? Does it give you jollies to say the N-word for some reason? Why is saying the N-word some kind of essential freedom that you feel you are being denied?
Agreed. Mori posted an article where I really appreciate this black man's opinion on the use of the word:Split T wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 11:12 amTo me, sure it would be great if everyone stopped using the n-word, but as a white person it’s not my place to tell black people how to use it. I also don’t feel like it’s my place to even worry about their use of it. If you’re not black, don’t use the n-word under any circumstance. I think that’s a pretty easy and straightforward rule. Makes it very simple.
Not you. Sarver said that, according to Watson.SunsRIt wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 12:12 pmWho said that? I said I don’t think ANYBODY should say it.Mori Chu wrote: ↑Fri Nov 12, 2021 11:54 amI just don't get why some white folks want to fight for their right to say the N-word. "Black people sometimes say it! Why can't I say it?" Why are you so eager to say it? Does it give you jollies to say the N-word for some reason? Why is saying the N-word some kind of essential freedom that you feel you are being denied?
That’s what pops into his head, even at a bawdy roast? A misogynistic joke about a receptionist and breast size?
It made me think, though. I think that after the NBA’s investigation, Sarver’s dash as Suns owner will look something like this: 2004-22.
If Robert Sarver wrote or said what you just wrote, people here would be using that as further proof of his misogyny and a reason to take the team away from him.JeremyG wrote: ↑Thu Nov 11, 2021 1:38 pmhttps://www.si.com/nba/2021/11/10/suns- ... okes-video
Wendy Heckmann: "Robert is a really good person and I’ve never heard him say anything derogatory or anything with any kind of racial flair or any kind of sexist flair or anything—he’s never done that in my presence."
Robert Sarver in her presence: "I’m gonna guess his receptionist has small tits."